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Friday, 28 February 2014

Adultery May Be The Key To A Long, Happy Marriage, Psychologists Claim



In a paper, The Suffocation of Marriage, psychologist Prof. Finkel and his co-authors, claim that allowing one’s spouse to sleep with other people may be the key to a happy marriage.

They argue that “outsourcing” other areas of marriage, such as sex, to other suitors could make a relationship work in the long run.

Prof. Eli Finkel, who is from the Department of Psychology at Northwestern University in Illinois, USA, advises embarking on an agreed “non-monogamous” relationship for marriages in which the passion and intimacy has gone.

The professor told The Telegraph, “It may be that your spouse is a terrific source of social support and intellectual stimulation but you haven’t had sex more than twice a year for the last five years and neither of you think that’s adequate. So you could say, that’s one of the needs I am going to fulfil elsewhere. I don’t recommend cheating, but an openly consensual non-monogamous relationship, that may very well be functional.”

Of course this is contrary to everything the Bible says about marriage. It sounds like the world has finally found ‘scientific’ backing to pull down traditional Christian family values.

What do you think? 

EFCC Arraigns Three Pastors For N3 Million Fraud




Three Pastors, Glory Okeoghene Abrefera, Reverend Vincent Opkogo and their company, Mustard Seed Microfinance Limited, were on February 25, 2014 arraigned by the EFCC before Justice Inagite-Kuejubola of the State High Court, Effurun, Warri on a 38-count charge of conspiracy, diversion and stealing.

The pastors have pleaded not guilty to all the charges against them.

It is however interesting to note that the pastors have, in 2011, been convicted by Justice I N Buba for obtaining the sum of N3, 480,000 in a phony investment transaction through Mustard Seed Microfinance Limited.

One of the factors militating against the growth of small businesses in Nigeria is the lack of trustworthy people to partner and network with. The behavior of these pastors is indeed scary. If you can't trust pastors, who can you trust to do business with in Nigeria? 

If these were your pastors, would you still be attending their churches? 

Wednesday, 26 February 2014

President Jonathan's Centenary Celebration Broadcast



National Broadcast by
His Excellency, 
President Goodluck Ebele Jonathan, GCFR
On the Occasion of Nigeria’s Centenary Celebrations 
Wednesday, 26th February, 2014 

Dear Compatriots,

1. I extend warm greetings and felicitations to all Nigerians as we celebrate our nation’s centenary; a significant milestone in our journey to Nationhood.

2. One hundred years ago, on the 1st of January 1914, the British Colonial authorities amalgamated the Southern and Northern Protectorates, giving birth to the single geo-political entity called Nigeria which has become our home, our hope, and our heritage.

3. I have often expressed the conviction that our amalgamation was not a mistake. While our union may have been inspired by considerations external to our people; I have no doubt that we are destined by God Almighty to live together as one big nation, united in diversity.

4. I consider myself specially privileged to lead our country into its second century of existence. And as I speak with you today, I feel the full weight of our hundred-year history. But what I feel most is not frustration, it is not disillusionment. What I feel is great pride and great hope for a country that is bound to overcome the transient pains of the moment and eventually take its rightful place among the greatest nations on earth.

5. Like every country of the world, we have had our troubles. And we still do. We have fought a civil war. We have seen civil authorities overthrown by the military. We have suffered sectarian violence. And as I speak, a part of our country is still suffering from the brutal assault of terrorists and insurgents.

6. While the occasion of our centenary undoubtedly calls for celebration, it is also a moment to pause and reflect on our journey of the past one hundred years, to take stock of our past and consider the best way forward for our nation.

7. Even as we celebrate our centenary, we must realise that in the context of history, our nation is still in its infancy.

8. We are a nation of the future, not of the past and while we may have travelled for a century, we are not yet at our destination of greatness.

9. The amalgamation of 1914 was only the first step in our national journey. Unification was followed by independence and democracy which have unleashed the enormous potentials of our people and laid the foundation for our nation’s greatness.

10. In challenging times, it is easy to become pessimistic and cynical. But hope, when grounded in realism, enables and inspires progress. Therefore, as we celebrate our first century of nationhood and enter a second, we must not lose sight of all that we have achieved since 1914 in terms of nation-building, development and progress.

11. Today, we salute once again the great heroes of our nation – Herbert Macaulay, Ernest Ikoli, Dr. Nnamdi Azikiwe, Sir Ahmadu Bello, Sir Abubakar Tafawa Balewa, Chief Obafemi Awolowo, Alvan Ikoku, Chief Harold Dappa-Biriye, Dr. Michael Okpara, Chief Anthony Enahoro, Mallam Aminu Kano, Mokwugo Okoye and Chief Michael Imoudu among others.

12. We must be inspired by our past to overcome the obstacles we face in the present and honour our forebears by realising the promise of a Nigeria that is not only independent but also truly unified, prosperous and admired the world over.

13. The history of Nigeria since independence is the story of a struggle to fulfill our great promise. The discovery of oil in our country in the late 1950s offered new hope of prosperity but we have not always been able to reap the benefits in a fair and equitable way.

14. The situation was not helped by political instability and the frequent suspension of democracy by military coups. During the civil war, the very existence of our country was cast into doubt but through it all, the promise of a Nigeria that is united, free and strong remained in our people's hearts.

15. Thanks to the efforts of our statesmen and women, and millions of ordinary Nigerians, the union endured and flourished. I would like to specifically commend members of the Armed Forces for their contributions and sacrifices to keep Nigeria one.

16. General Yakubu Gowon had the wisdom and grace to declare that the civil war had seen "no victor, no vanquished" and welcomed, "the dawn of national reconciliation".

17. It was in this spirit that General Olusegun Obasanjo collected the instruments of surrender at the end of the war and later became the first military ruler in our country to hand over power voluntarily to a democratic government.

18. While the Second Republic did not last, his fine example was later followed by General Abdulsalam Abubakar who paved the way for our current democratic dispensation which has lasted longer than the previous three put together.

19. As we celebrate our centenary, I believe that it is vital that we focus our thoughts on the vast potentials of a unified and progressive Nigeria; and build on the relative stability of the Fourth Republic to achieve accelerated national socio-economic development.

20. I also believe that the future greatness of our country is assured by the favourable tail winds of a resilient population, ecological diversity, rich natural resources and a national consciousness that rises above our differences.

21. We are a unique country. We have been brought together in a union like no other by providence. Our nation has evolved from three regions to thirty six states and a Federal Capital Territory.

22. We have transited from the Parliamentary to a Presidential system of government. We have moved our capital from the coastal city of Lagos to Abuja, at the centre of our country.

23. Today Abuja stands as a monument to our national aspiration for greater unity; it symbolises our dream of a modern nation unhinged from primordial cleavages and designed as a melting pot of our diversity.

24. If, in our first century, we could build a new capital city, we can surely build a newer, stronger, more united and prosperous Nigeria in the next century that will be an authentic African success story.

25. The whole world awaits this African success story. With our sheer size, population, history, resilience, human and natural resources and economic potentials, Nigeria is divinely ordained to lead the African Renaissance.

26. That is why I am confident that in the next 100 years, those who will celebrate Nigeria’s second centenary, will do so as a united, prosperous and politically stable nation which is truly the pride and glory of Africa and the entire black race.

27. The key to the fulfilment of that vision is our continued unity as a nation. Perhaps one of the most amazing stories of our political evolution in the last hundred years is that an ordinary child of ordinary parentage from a minority group has risen to occupy the highest office in our country.

28. As we march into the next hundred years, it is my hope that mine will no longer be an extra-ordinary story but an accepted reality of our democracy that every Nigerian child can pursue his or her dreams no matter how tall; that every Nigerian child can aspire to any position in our country, and will not be judged by the language that he speaks or by how he worships God; not by gender nor by class; but by his abilities and the power of his dreams.

29. I am proud and privileged to have been elected leader of Nigeria and I consider it my solemn responsibility to act in the best interest of the nation at all times.

30. Dear compatriots, in line with the thoughts of that great son of our continent, Nelson Mandela, let us not judge ourselves, and let not the world judge us by how many times we have stumbled, but by how strongly we have risen, every single time that we have faltered.

31. Even as we remain resolute in our conviction that our union is non-negotiable, we must never be afraid to embrace dialogue and strengthen the basis of this most cherished union. A strong nation is not that which shies away from those difficult questions of its existence, but that which confronts such questions, and together provides answers to them in a way that guarantees fairness, justice and equity for all stakeholders.

32. My call for the National Conference in this first year of our second century is to provide the platform to confront our challenges. I am confident that we shall rise from this conference with renewed courage and confidence to march through the next century and beyond, to overcome all obstacles on the path to the fulfillment of our globally acknowledged potential for greatness.


33. I have referred to national leaders who did so much to build our nation in the past hundred years but nation-building is not just a matter for great leaders and elites alone.

34. All Nigerians must be involved in this national endeavour. From the threads of our regional, ethnic and religious diversities we must continuously weave a vibrant collage of values that strengthen the Nigerian spirit.
35. The coming National Conference should not be about a few, privileged persons dictating the terms of debate but an opportunity for all Nigerians to take part in a comprehensive dialogue to further strengthen our union.

36. I am hopeful that the conference will not result in parochial bargaining between competing regions, ethnic, religious and other interest groups but in an objective dialogue about the way forward for our nation and how to ensure a more harmonious balance among our three tiers of government.

37. My dear compatriots, as we celebrate our centenary, the security situation in some of our North-Eastern States, sadly remains a major concern for us. Just yesterday, young students, full of hopes and dreams for a great future, were callously murdered as they slept in their college dormitories in Yobe State. I am deeply saddened by their deaths and that of other Nigerians at the hands of terrorists. Our hearts go out to their parents and relatives, colleagues and school authorities.

38. We will continue to do everything possible to permanently eradicate the scourge of terrorism and insurgency from our country. We recognise that the root cause of militancy, terrorism and insurgency is not the strength of extremist ideas but corrupted values and ignorance.

39. That is why our counter-terrorism strategy is not just about enforcing law and order as we have equipped our security forces to do. It also involves expanding economic opportunities, social inclusion, education and other measures that will help restore normalcy not just in the short term, but permanently.

40. I want to reassure Nigerians that terrorism, strife and insecurity in any part of Nigeria are abhorrent and unacceptable to us. I urge leaders throughout Nigeria to ensure that ethnicity and religion are not allowed to become political issues.

41. I hope and pray that one hundred years from now, Nigerians will look back on another century of achievements during which our union was strengthened, our independence was enhanced, our democracy was entrenched and our example was followed by leaders of other nations whose ambition is to emulate the success of Nigeria; a country that met its difficulties head-on and fulfilled its promise.

42. Finally, Dear Compatriots, as we enter a second century in the life of our nation, let us rededicate ourselves to doing more to empower the youth of our country. Our common heritage and future prosperity are best protected and guaranteed by them. We must commit our full energies and resources to empowering them to achieve our collective vision of greatness in this second century of our nationhood.

43. That is the task before our country; that is the cause I have chosen to champion and I believe we will triumph.

44. I wish all Nigerians happy Centenary celebrations.

45. Long live the Federal Republic of Nigeria.

46. I thank you.

Friday, 21 February 2014

Governor Apkabio Emerges Winner of the QreatifDave Blog’s Most Outstanding Christian Governor in Nigeria Poll


We have been running a poll the past 14 days to determine who our readers consider the Most Outstanding Christian Governor in Nigeria. At the close of polling, 23:50GMT, 20 February 2014, Governor Godswill Apkabio got the most endorsement from our readers followed by Governor Rotimi Amaechi.

A total of 2363 votes were cast. Governor Apkabio got the most endorsements with a total of 1052 votes corresponding to 44.52% of the total vote cast.

Below is the result of the poll:

No
Governor
Vote
%
1
Gov. Godswill Apkabio
1052
44.52
2
Gov. Rotimi Amaechi
915
38.72
3
Gov. Peter Obi
256
10.83
4
Gov. Jonah Jang
140
5.92

Total
2363
100

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Tuesday, 18 February 2014

Relationships Take Centre Stage - By Susan Ferguson

Models: Godwin Komo Apochi, Ladi Sambo

“If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you” (James 1:5 NIV).

Nearly every facet of our lives touches a relationship in some way. The family is the closest relationship to our hearts, followed by trustworthy friends. The people we treasure the most are those who love us despite our faults and our failures. These rare jewels are the friends with whom we want to spend time and share life's experiences.

Relationships can either brighten our days or turn blue skies gray. They are the source of our greatest joy and deepest pain. When relationships go wrong, we need God's wisdom to give us understanding and discernment so we can deal with matters effectively. God's wisdom, coupled with prayer, can change hearts and provide a new perspective. Wisdom is a promise of God that's invaluable in our day-to-day living for Christ.

In addition to God's wisdom, we need His love to have successful relationships. Some people are not easy to love, and we need Christ's love shining through us to them. We need His love to help us look past human flaws and overlook offences. All of our relationships need the love of Christ. Though we cannot love perfectly, we can abide in Christ and grow in His love. Relationships are a necessary part of life, but let us not forget that Jesus is the most valuable relationship we have. 

Saturday, 15 February 2014

Why Men Cheat


Models: Godwin Komo Apochi, Ladi Sambo


Decent, Church-Going, Family Men Who Just Happen To Have Mistresses
When Francis decided to settle down, he chose Sandra. She was the girl of his dreams; the love of his life. Sandra was tall, light-skinned and had a pronounced Coke bottle figure. Although she was only of average intelligence, she was very ‘sociable’, a quality Francis considered an asset considering his ambition of going into Nigerian politics. He had overlooked more intelligent women because he believed Sandra’s beauty would keep him from, “looking outside,” when they got married.

Well, just a few weeks after their wedding, Francis was spotted checking into a hotel with Khadijat (one of his ex girlfriends). Now, about seven years later, he sleeps at home only about two nights a week on the average. He changes girlfriends every other week, and has a child out of wedlock.

His best friend, Abel, was not any better. A Deacon at his parish, Abel was a beer enthusiast, frequented nightclubs and bars and had mistresses all over Abuja. Abel has been a ‘ladies man’ since his early teens and even his deep involvement with church has not diminished his obsession with the fairer sex. 

Akin, on the other hand, was what most considered the polar opposite of Abel and Francis. An Assistant Director at one of the federal ministries, he was a devoted family man who was active in church, always home after work and never went out at night except to visit family friends with his beautiful wife, Kemi. Unknown to most people however, Akin has had series of affairs with young women at his ministry and women he met at the conferences, workshops and tours that took him out of Abuja almost on a monthly basis.

These men did not really consider themselves as bad people. Neither did their wives. They see themselves as decent, church-going, upwardly-mobile, family men who just happen to have mistresses.

It has been said that one out of three men will cheat by the time they are in their late thirties and forties. ‘Christian’ men are not exempt. Take a tour of the bars, taverns and clubs across the country and you will find them populated with ‘Christian’ husbands with a little money and straying eyes. Even church leaders have been caught in the web of infidelity: read any of Nigeria’s racy tabloids and you’ll see ‘proof’. 




Ways Men Cheat
The Class One Affair: This is the one night stand. It usually occurs when men meet very sexually attractive, and willing, females at clubs, bars, while away from home for a conference, workshop or holiday. Most times, wives never get to know about it.  

The Class Two Affair is a love relationship that starts as a friendship and grows mostly because of a deficit in a marriage. It involves a powerful emotional connection between the man and the woman who usually share a task or orientation such as a job, common ministry or passion. It is very common in the workplace.

Class Three Affairs involves sexual addiction. Sexual addiction may also be accompanied with other addictions like alcohol addiction. Men who fall for this kind of affair may also have a history of molestation or sexual activity before puberty.

A lot of Christian men are also involved in what is termed, “Emotional Affairs” without knowing it. It occurs when two parties share strong feelings for each other. It does not involve sex. That is perhaps why most Christians don’t consider it as cheating. But it is every bit as destructive.

Emotional affairs are super-charged with emotions that rob marriages of emotional energy. They badly affect communication between spouses as the man saves topics of conversation to talk with the woman he is having an affair with rather than with his wife. Because there is no guilt associated with it, this is the hardest kind of affair to recover from.  

When Will Men Cheat?
So when do men go from caring, faithful, husbands to cheating jerks? Men tend to have affairs when they are in their late thirties to early forties. Some situations can however increase the risk of men cheating. When a man does not share a common ministry with his wife or has a hobby that he shares with someone of the opposite sex, his chances of cheating increases. History of infidelity in families also increases the likelihood of men cheating on their wives. This may be because he may have grown up to subconsciously accept cheating as permissive behaviour. Also men who frequently cheated and had multiple sex partners when they were single have a tendency to become cheating husbands



Some Signs Your Man May Be Cheating
In the course of researching this topic, it became apparent that in spite of Francis’ open philandering, his wife seemed completely unaware of it. Could it be that she knew about it but chose to ignore it to save her marriage?

Here are some signs that may indicate that a man may be cheating: He spends more time away from home, he stops asking for sex; he picks fights with you more often, he avoids your calls; he travels together with the same close female colleague. He Works late together with the same close female colleague; praises her more than other co-workers and is always having meetings with her to discuss a project.

Excuses Men Give For Cheating
Actually most Christian men we have spoken to (whom we knew cheat) concerning why they cheat avoided the conversation. But some spoke and from research and observation, we came up with some excuses men give for cheating.

i.             Their wives don’t give them sex especially when they are pregnant or because every night they claim they are exhausted from work

ii.            Their women got fat on them: they no longer find them sexually attractive

iii.           Their wives no longer sexually arouse them. After a long time in marriage having sex with the same women no longer excites them.

iv.          Women let them do it. Their women forgive them because they are afraid they may lose them if they protest or because they feel it is their inadequacy that led their men to cheat in the first place

v.            They can get away with cheating because their wives will not kill them for doing it. Most Nigerian Christian women will tolerate their cheating spouse if he keeps his other obligations as a husband such as providing for the family.

vi.          Their wives has difficulty bearing children, especially male children, so they try other women

vii.         It validates their manhood as expected by society and peers who considers a caring faithful man a weakling and a ‘woman wrapper’.

viii.        Their ex did all the exciting things pornstars did in bed, but they don’t know how to ask their ‘decent’ wives to do the sex positions they want

ix.          Their wife had a baby and their penis no longer fit

x.            Their wife is a nag

xi.          The chase and sexual conquests was challenging and exciting

xii.         A lot of men cheated because the opportunity was simply there

xiii.        They don’t love their wives/girlfriends anymore

xiv.       The woman they cheated with looked like an ex girlfriend they never got over

xv.         It befits their social and economic status. Rich men should live like chiefs: have lots of women


The Truth About Why Men Cheat
To get at the real reasons behind men’s infidelity, not just the excuses we hear from some cheating men or what women think are the reasons why men cheat, marriage counsellor M Gary Neuman, in his book The Truth About Cheating, surveyed 200 cheating and noncheating husbands. Here are some of his findings:

About 48% men listed emotional dissatisfaction as the primary reason they cheated. This busts the myth that for men, cheating is all about sex. Only about 10% of men think they cheat because of sexual dissatisfaction. The most important factor that makes men cheat is when they feel unappreciated or feel emotionally disconnected.

Most of their extramarital affairs did not start with sex or attraction, but with deep emotional connections and emotional fulfillment. Men live for that. They need someone to reach them there and help them make sense of manhood. They depend on their wives to do this.

Guilt will not stop a man from cheating. It is not only uncaring men that cheat. About 68% of men who cheat never dreamed they would be unfaithful - almost all wish they haven’t done it. So even if your man swears that he will never cheat on you, don’t count on it.

Peer Influence: About 77% of cheating men have a good friend who cheats! Having around friends who stray makes cheating seem normal and legitimizes it as a possibility. Build your social circle around happily married couples that share your values – it’ll create an environment that supports marriage

Work place association: About 40% of men who cheat met the other woman at work! Most times the women he cheats with at the office is someone who praises him, looks up to him, and compliments his efforts. He spends most of his time (at least 8hrs a day) with the person at work. 

Beauty or physical attraction is not the main reason men cheat: Only 2% of men who cheat said their mistress was more physically attractive than their wife.  A man doesn't cheat because he thinks he will get better sex with a better-looking body. He is cheating to fill an emotional void. He feels a connection with the other woman and sex comes along for the ride.

Close relationships with other women can lead to men cheating: Only 6% of cheating men had sex with a woman after meeting her that same day or night. About 73% men get to know the other woman for more than a month before they cheated.  

For what other reason do you think men cheat? Please share it with us. Drop a comment below. 

Tuesday, 11 February 2014

Do People Abuse Their Relationship With God When They Pray to Not Get Caught Doing Wrong? Tyrese Gibson Sparks Fiery Debate With Question

Culled from the Christian Post online

"Fast and Furious" actor and R&B singer Tyrese Gibson set off a fiery debate on his Facebook page Tuesday, when he questioned whether people abuse their relationship with God when they pray to not get caught doing wrong.

"I think it's real interesting that I find a lot of people take their access for granted. Have you ever done something really stupid and find yourself praying that you didn't get caught?" asked Gibson in a video he shared with his more than 10 million fans Tuesday morning. The entertainer who has increasingly been tackling more existential and spiritual issues on his social media platforms since the death of friend actor Paul Walker last November implied in the video that he feels it is abusive to have that relationship with God but invited his fans to weigh in on the issue as well."How do you do wrong and then pray that you don't get caught? ... Cheating, lying, stealing, a bunch of other malicious horrible crimes that folks [are] doing on the regular that I won't even mention, how do you pray that you won't get caught?" he noted.


"You know how many people are praying, you know, how many people did wrong like murder somebody, did something wrong and they haven't been caught yet and [they're] praying every night that they don't get caught? For all of you God-fearing spiritual folks, I'm just really asking that question," he said. "Is that abusing your relationship with God if you're doing wrong and then praying that you don't get caught?"


What do you think? Is it right to pray to God not to be caught for a bad thing that you have done? Will God answer your prayers? Will that kind of prayer not amount to abusing your relationship with God? 

We will like to hear your comments on this. 

Saturday, 8 February 2014

13 Bible Verses For Small Business Owners By Melinda Emerson



Many of us who run a business can feel like a one-armed wallpaper hanger at times and it's easy to become too busy or tired and forget to pray. My Bible verse theme for the year is Jeremiah 29:11-13. So many of you shared this verse and when I read it, I felt so encouraged. This verse keeps me grounded, and I hope it does the same for you.

At the top of each year, I pull together my favourite Bible verses to encourage you along your entrepreneurial journey. Running your small business is a spiritual journey as much as a road trip to business success. Along the road, you will be tested, stretched and stressed and these words from the bible will give you needed encouragement. This is my fourth year of writing Bible verses every small business owner needs, and I wanted the Bible verses that so many of you have shared with me in the comments section of this blog over the last few years. You all have inspired me. Here are 13 Bible verses for small business owners….

Jeremiah 29:11-13 (NIV) "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart." In order to have a successful business, you must trust in the Lord. God's will is what is best for us. There will be times when you do not understand why things are happening in your business, but God is always trying to teach us and protect us.

Romans 8:18 (NIV) "I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us." One of the things my father used to say to me growing up was, "You wouldn't know good days, if it weren't for bad days. So you need to thank God for bad days too." Often in business when we don't close a sale or get a contract that we invested a lot of time in, we take it personally. Start thinking about things in your business differently. When you don't get a contract, it's because it wasn't meant for you. In some cases, God might have been protecting you from a nightmare client.

Exodus 35:35 (NIV) “He has filled them with skill to do all kinds of work as engravers, designers, embroiderers in blue, purple and scarlet yarn and fine linen, and weavers--all of them skilled workers and designers.” God has given all of us talents that we can sell, but that doesn't mean you should start a business. Make yourself a student of business, first. Make sure there's a paying client for your product or service. Develop your business and leadership skills so that you can turn your talent into a real business.

Psalm 37:4 (NIV) “Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart.” Always remember who you are and who you are in Christ. We are not defined by our bank accounts or by how many plaques are on the wall. Never hesitate to share your testimony with others about what the Lord has done for you in business. God wants us to be fine examples of his light and love.

Joshua 1:8 (NIV) “Keep this Book of the Law always on your lips; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful.” The most important thing you can do for your business is pray daily. Start each day in meditation and prayer and you will stay calm as the day's struggles come upon you. Read words from the bible to stay encouraged and balanced.

Proverbs 16:3 (NIV) “Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and he will establish your plans.” Whenever you have doubt, go to the Lord in prayer and wait on God to give you the answer. Remember that he speaks to us through visions and dreams, and sometimes he will send people who will speak his words to you.

Isaiah 45:3 (NIV) “I will give you hidden treasures, riches stored in secret places, so that you may know that I am the Lord, the God of Israel, who summons you by name.” There is no such thing as luck, only blessings sent from God. When unexplainable things happen, do not be fooled that you did anything to make them happen. Always remember that God has already prepared a place for you to succeed and to learn.

Titus 3:14 (NIV) “Our people must learn to devote themselves to doing what is good, in order to provide for urgent needs and not live unproductive lives.” God helps those who help themselves. If you do nothing, nothing will happen. Focus your activities each day on trying to accomplish five things before 11 a.m. daily. You will feel less stress and get a lot more done each day.
Psalm 37:5-6 (NIV) “Commit your way to the Lord; trust in him and he will do this: He will make your righteous reward shine like the dawn, your vindication like the noonday sun.” There will be times in your life when no one will think that you are going in the right direction with your business. But no one can stop God's anointing. If he gave you the idea for your business, he will bless it. Stay faithful and focused. When you think you have no more to give, give some more and you will be rewarded.

Romans 8:38-39 (NIV) “For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.” No matter what you do, God loves you. He will forgive you. He believes in second chances and hundreds more, if you need them. Be quick to forgive and pray for a forgiving spirit. How would your life change if you loved unconditionally?

2 Corinthians 2:14 (NIV) “But thanks be to God, who always leads us as captives in Christ's triumphal procession and uses us to spread the aroma of the knowledge of him everywhere.” Be thankful that you know God for all of his goodness. God wants us to be fine examples of his light and love.

Deuteronomy 30:16 (NIV) “For I command you today to love the Lord your God, to walk in obedience to him, and to keep his commands, decrees and laws; then you will live and increase, and the Lord your God will bless you in the land you are entering to possess.” Walk in God's ways and he will bless your business ventures. I want you all to know that I write these verses for myself, as much as I hope to inspire you.

Isaiah 54:2-3 (NIV) “Enlarge the place of your tent, stretch your tent curtains wide, do not hold back; lengthen your cords, strengthen your stakes. For you will spread out to the right and to the left; your descendants will dispossess nations and settle in their desolate cities.” You do not need to wait until you are rich and super-successful to help others. You should help others now as you are building your business. Now, that does not mean you should go hungry to help others, but do not be afraid to enlarge your tent to partner with "so called" competitors. There really is enough business for everyone.

Examine which of these verses speaks most clearly to your heart. I pray that you will be healed by God's powerful holy word. God Bless you….


What Bible verse speaks most clearly to your heart?

Audacity, Sagacity, Fidelity And Faith: A Profile Of Rt. Hon. Chibuike Rotimi Amaechi

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After serving two meritorious terms as Speaker of the Rivers State House of Assembly (1999 - 2007), Rt. Hon. Chibuike Rotimi Amaechi became the governor of Rivers State on October 26, 2007. This came after a long legal battle culminating in the Supreme Court ruling that pronounced him the rightful candidate of the People’s Democratic Party (PDP) and winner of the April 2007 Governorship election in Rivers State.

Amaechi’s mandate had been wrongfully taken from him after he won his party’s primaries for the 2007 elections. Being a staunch believer in Jesus Christ and the rule of law, he sought redress with God in prayer and fasting and at the courts. Finally, his faith paid off. At the Supreme Court, he got his well-deserved victory, a victory for the masses, a divine elevation.

Governor Amaechi was in April 2011 re-elected for a second term in office following his outstanding performance during his first tenure. He is currently the Chairman of the Nigeria Governors’ Forum (NGF).


As Governor of Rivers State, Rt. Hon. Amaechi has overhauled the education sector and rebuilt the health sector. So far, his administration has completed 160 Primary Health Centres (and is executing a few more), three ultra modern hospitals, over 300 primary schools and 24 model secondary schools.  All of these facilities meet the best international standards. Through the Special Overseas Scholarship Scheme of the Rivers State Sustainable Development Agency (RSSDA) (an agency he established by law to see to the needs of the rural people and fast track development) and the Rivers State Scholarship Board, the Amaechi administration have facilitated yearly overseas scholarship awards for deserving Rivers indigenes to pursue university education abroad.

In pursuance of his vision to connect all parts of Rivers State by road, his administration has massively invested in the development of infrastructure, and the construction and reconstruction of roads and bridges across the state. Some major roads in the Port Harcourt metropolis have been expanded and reconstructed; there has been a massive construction of internal roads in rural areas and unprecedented land reclamation in some coastal areas. His administration has also awarded the contract for the construction of more roads across the state and has re-warded the contracts for the rehabilitation of 50 per cent of the roads in Port Harcourt.


The governor is also committed to meeting the needs of commuters in his state. To this end, he is currently building the first monorail project in sub Saharan Africa. When completed, this will provide mass transportation within the city of Port Harcourt and decongest traffic in the metropolis.


Amaechi’s administration has recorded giant strides in the power sector. Desirous of meeting the power supply needs of the people of Rivers State so as to drive the growth of the state’s economy, his administration has set a target of 715MW to ensure adequate power supply in the state. This target is in the process of being achieved. The state already generates about 460MW; 130MW at the Trans Amadi power plant, 150MW at Omoku, 180MW at Afam, while work at the 75MW power plant at Onne is in advance stage of completion. Another 180MW power plant is starting up at Afam. This will add up to the envisaged target of 715MW.

The Amaechi administration has also sought to create job opportunities through Agricultural development which will also serve as an alternative economy to crude oil. In pursuance of this goal, his administration has established the Songhai Rivers Initiative Farm (modelled after the Songhai farm in Port Novo, Benin Republic). The 314 hectare farm is 20 times bigger than the Songhai farm in Porto Novo. The farm has employed and is engaged in the training of young Rivers men and women in new farming methods, and techniques of boosting productivity with innovative technologies.


Governor Amaechi has also actualized the Greater Port Harcourt City Master Plan and has kick-started development there with the construction of the new Adokiye Amiesimaka Stadium and the planned new Rivers State University of Science and Technology.

Governor Amaechi has exhibited transparency and accountability in his administration as governor of Rivers State and has made the office of Governor as approachable as never before. He leads with a participatory style government that maintains constant communication with the people of the state.

The governor has made a conscious effort to remove the secrecy in the expenditure of government funds by initiating the passage of a bill setting up the Rivers State Due Process Commission. This is done to ensure the exercise of due process in all Rivers State Government procurement and contracts. He also ensured the institution of Public Private Partnership and many other developmental policies and programmes.


To boost the arts, Governor Amaechi adopted the Garden City Literary Festival and transformed it to a yearly international ritual that gathers intellectuals from far and near and seeks means of improving the society through literature. The festival also seeks to encourage and boost the reading culture in Nigeria. His administration also revived the Port Harcourt Carnival (CARNIRIV) and transformed it into a yearly Christmas event. The carnival has matured into a veritable tourism event that gives residents and visitors to the state an opportunity to relax and have fun as they savour the cultural heritage of the state.

The Rt. Hon. Chibuike Rotimi Amaechi, who holds the national honour of Commander of the Order of the Niger (CON), is a catholic and a Knight of Saint Johns. He is married to Dame Judith Amaechi, and has three children (boys).

Governor Amaechi is undoubtedly one of the most outstanding (Christian) governors in Nigeria. He has shown excellence in the quality of his service delivery to his state and provided good governance with transparency and accountability. It is for these reasons that we celebrating him as one of the Most Outstanding Christian Governors in Nigeria.